I have decided to make a very conscious effort to focus on all of the positive things in my life. And even on my worst day, there still has to be one thing that made me smile or made me feel good. It might be a thought, an event or even a phone call. Most of my entries will be brief - a "feel good moment", if you will! Please feel free to leave any comments you have (unless they're bad - there is no negativity allowed here!).

Thursday, August 11, 2011

August 11, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was a nice family dinner before my son leaves for school.  Although we did miss my two nieces who aren't home from camp yet!

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

August 10, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was finishing packing my son up to go back to school!  I packed my stuff too!  A very productive night!

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

August 9, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was my father's successful surgical procedure!  And being in a hospital waiting room with my mother an my brother is always entertaining!

Monday, August 8, 2011

August 8, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was a good report on a medical test I had taken.  There can never be enough of those!

Sunday, August 7, 2011

August 7, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was sitting at a table with 10 people all afternoon where NONE of them even looked at their phones once!  There was not an iPhone or a Blackberry to be seen!  And amongst this group was a doctor, a dentist and a lawyer - all of whom have their own successful practices.  I think we ALL forget sometimes that we can "disconnect" for a little while we are with other people.

Saturday, August 6, 2011

August 6, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was knowing that I am actually getting through to the residents of my home!  Just when I could swear things go in one ear and out the other,  a glimmer of validation peeps through!

Friday, August 5, 2011

August 5, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was knowing that the week was over and the weekend was about to begin!  I hope you all had an easy week and I hope you have a great weekend!

Thursday, August 4, 2011

August 4, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was the interaction I had with a nice old man in the elevator.  He was already on the elevator when it stopped at my floor and he started to get off of the elevator thinking that he had reached the lobby.  When he realized he had not gotten to the lobby yet, he just started to laugh and stepped back into the elevator - I couldn't help but smile with him.  Upon reaching the lobby, he graciously allowed me to step out first and extended his arm out as if to say "after you!"  I extended him the same courtesy as I opened the door to the building and let him go out first.  When we got outside, we both wished each other a pleasant evening!

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

August 3, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was realizing that my daughter has TWO weekends between camp ending and school starting!  This might help us to do more college visiting!

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

August 2, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was driving home from work with some classic rock BLASTING on the radio!  It was two-fer Tuesday and the last 4 songs I heard before I got to my house were 2 great songs from Foreigner and another 2 great songs from Bon Jovi including my very favorite one, "Living On a Prayer".

Monday, August 1, 2011

August 1, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was completing the very long "to do" list I had made for myself today!  And I even had to deal (successfully, I might add!) with a few problems that came up that were NOT on my list!  All in all, a very productive day!

Sunday, July 31, 2011

July 31, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was a PERFECT beach day!  The sky was blue, the breeze was nice and there was no humidity.  Hopefully it will be the start to a perfect week!

Saturday, July 30, 2011

July 30, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was going to the nail salon and finding a whole section of new colors!  I tend to use the same "family" of colors, but once in a while, I like to try something a little different.  I love the new color I got today! 

Friday, July 29, 2011

July 29, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was spending some 1-on-1 time with my son.  We had a little date at the movies.  It was nice that we got to spend a few hours together.

Thursday, July 28, 2011

July 28, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was the kindness and smile of a stranger.  I was ordering breakfast at the deli this morning and I had asked for a packet of Motrin and said "it's going to be one of those days".  The young doorman from the hotel across the street was behind me and asked if I was off on the weekend.  I told him I was and he smiled at me and said "well, it's only 1 more day - you're almost there!"   The way that he said it just made it all seem ok.  (He could have easily had an attitude since I am sure that HE is working on the weekend)  As I left I turned to him and said "have a great day!"  and he said "you too!" with that awesome smile.

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

July 27, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was hearing that my friend's mom had successful surgery.  News like that makes all the time in the waiting room worthwhile!

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

July 26, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was some much needed RAIN!  I would prefer if my grass went back to its green color which is preferable to the current brown tint it has!

Monday, July 25, 2011

July 25, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was reading an article that seemed to be written specifically for me!  It really helped to put things I have been struggling with in perspective.

Sunday, July 24, 2011

July 24, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was finding out that my husband went to the bank so I didn't have to!  One less errand for me!

Saturday, July 23, 2011

July 23, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was being in my favorite city with some of my favorite people!  There is nothing like a girls day out!  Except maybe a girls NIGHT out!

Friday, July 22, 2011

July 22, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was an air conditioner that worked well!  I am not a fan of heat - I LOVE cold!

Thursday, July 21, 2011

July 21, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was hearing someone (who would NEVER say it!) say "your way is better".  I was downright giddy for an hour!  But I have made an appointment to have my hearing checked as a precaution...............

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

July 20, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was spending a few really fun hours with some friends.  When we first entered the bar, we were the youngest people in there - as the hours passed, we suddenly became the oldest!  Of course it was also nice that we were only charged for 5 drinks (there were 4 of us!) when we clearly had way more than that! 

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

July 19, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was knowing that my husband still knows what to say to make me laugh at just the right time.  It isn't always the funniest joke that makes one laugh the hardest!

Monday, July 18, 2011

July 18,2011

The thing that made me happy today was going into the bathroom and finding that someone else changed the toilet paper!  We have 2 bathrooms in my house and no matter which one I go into, I find myself looking at an almost empty roll that needs to be changed every time I go in there!

I know that every one of you who has read this blog entry is sitting there with a big smile on your face and nodding!  C'mon - you know you are! :)

Sunday, July 17, 2011

July 17, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was buying a pair of jeans and having the lady at the register give me a discount that I didn't ask for or even know about!

Saturday, July 16, 2011

July 16, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was having the best hamburger I've ever eaten!  After the college tour we went to Bobby's Burger Palace (Bobby Flay's place) for lunch and couldn't believe how good it was!

Friday, July 15, 2011

July 15, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was knowing that it's payday!  The 15th of ANY month always makes me happy!

Thursday, July 14, 2011

July 14, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was opening the freezer to get some ice and finding a full ice cube tray!  Usually there is one lone cube sitting in the tray!

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

July 13, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was realizing what a blessing Motrin is!  I think those pills must have radar because they know EXACTLY where to go!

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

July 12, 2011

That thing that made me happy today was watching a family fulfill their dream of moving to Israel.  What an amazing video to watch as an entire plane of people arrived in Israel from JFK this morning to begin their lives anew!  Mazel tov to the Weinsteins and all the other families!

Monday, July 11, 2011

July 11, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was a nice long hot shower!  I do my best thinking in the shower!

Had I actually made it to 7-11 today, my moment of happiness would have involved a free slurpee!

Sunday, July 10, 2011

July 10, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was thinking about my weekend - it was a GREAT weekend!

I hope you all had a nice weekend and a great work week coming up!

Saturday, July 9, 2011

July 9, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was walking around Dylan's Candy Bar for 20 minutes and walking out without buying one thing!

Willpower is a beautiful thing!

Friday, July 8, 2011

July 8, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was logging on to weather.com and seeing a big yellow sun next to the word "Sunday"

I love having something to look forward to - now if only Mother Nature will cooperate!

Thursday, July 7, 2011

July 7, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was working my ASS off and having that great feeling of accomplishment.

I love to have that "good tired" feeling!

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

July 6, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was a surprise visit at the office from my co-worker who has been out since late April recuperating from surgery.

Even though it was only for a short time, it was great to see her sitting at her desk right behind me!

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

July 5, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was knowing that I got my point across.

Sometimes you just have to leave your comfort zone - generally not my strong point, but I am working on it.......

Monday, July 4, 2011

July 4, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was sitting on the beach by myself, listening to my iPod and smelling the ocean as each breeze blew by.

I think it's important to just take a little time each week to just leave everything behind and "chill".

Sunday, July 3, 2011

July 3, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was returning home from the bagel store this morning to find the PERFECT amount of butter on my bagel!  Usually there is either massive amounts or next to none!

Remember, folks - sometimes it IS the little things in life that make us happy!  Don't take them for granted!

Saturday, July 2, 2011

July 2, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was seeing all of the people who are working on 2 of my neighbors' houses leave early. 

The multitude of trucks that have been on my block for weeks are making driving very dangerous as they are parking on a blind curve.  And now I am hopeful that the rest of the weekend will be quiet and safe.

Friday, July 1, 2011

July 1, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was when my boss stood up at 2:25 and said "I'm leaving - you can go too!"

The only thing that can make a 3 day weekend better is starting that weekend 2 1/2 hours earlier than you thought you would!

Thursday, June 30, 2011

June 30, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was hearing my daughter's AP exam scores and knowing that all of the hard work she put into those courses has paid off.

Sometimes we wonder if something is worth the effort - it's nice to get the validation.

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

June 29, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was getting a phone call from a friend who was on vacation and heard a song that made her think of me.

I love it when I'm driving by myself and hear a song on the radio that reminds me of someone - I'm sure that there is a big smile on my face during those songs.

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

June 28, 2011

The thing that made me happy today was learning that someone took my advice.

We are often asked for our opinion or advice about something.  It's nice to know when someone actually thinks your advice is good enough to act on it.